I raised my niece on my own — eight years later, she pointed at a woman in the next beach changing cubicle and whispered, “Aunty, look… she has my mark”

to call you Mommy?”

Joan’s face crumpled, but she answered correctly.

Ruth nodded.

“No. You don’t have to call me anything your heart isn’t ready for.”

Ruth looked at me. “Can Aunty Jess stay my Aunty-Mom?”

Before I could answer, Joan said, “She earned that name.”

Ruth leaned against my side.

“Then you’re Joan for now.”

Joan nodded.

“She earned that name.”

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